Resolving Divorce Without Court
Building a Better Future for Your Family
One of the greatest gifts you can give your children during divorce is a peaceful, respectful transition into a newly restructured family. Mediation empowers you and your spouse to make the decisions that matter most, rather than leaving them in the hands of the court. Instead of a judge deciding issues like parenting, finances, property, and support, you remain in control of the outcome.
Guided by an experienced, neutral mediator, you can resolve disputes collaboratively, reduce conflict, and build a stronger foundation for healthy communication and successful co-parenting in the years ahead.
Common Questions, Answered
Mediation is a voluntary process, so both spouses must ultimately agree to participate. If only one of you is interested at first, an experienced mediator can speak with both of you—together or separately—to explain the benefits of mediation and how it differs from litigation. These conversations can take place in person, by phone, or virtually. If you are already represented by an attorney, the mediator can also discuss your options with your lawyer.
My flat-fee mediation packages range from $4,800 to $7,800, offering a significantly more affordable alternative to litigation, which can cost anywhere from $30,000 to $120,000.
With my services, you receive:
Rather than prolonging conflict, mediation helps you reach practical solutions and move forward with confidence.
No. A mediator is a neutral professional who does not represent either spouse or provide legal advice. Instead, the mediator facilitates productive discussions, explains the applicable law, and helps both parties work toward fair, informed decisions.
To ensure everyone fully understands the legal implications of the final agreement, each party is encouraged to have an independent attorney review the documents before signing. Throughout the process, the mediator remains impartial and ensures both parties have an equal opportunity to be heard.
Many couples begin mediation with strained communication—that's exactly what the process is designed to address. Your mediator creates a respectful, structured environment that keeps discussions focused on solutions rather than conflict.
Depending on your circumstances, the process may include:
The goal is to help you reach agreements, even when face-to-face conversations feel impossible.
Yes. Mediation is a confidential process, meaning discussions held during mediation generally cannot be used in court if an agreement is not reached. Standard divorce documents, such as financial disclosures, are the exception.
Unlike litigation, mediation also helps keep personal family matters out of the public record, providing greater privacy throughout the divorce process.
Mediation is conducted in three-hour sessions, with packages tailored to your family's needs. Property-only cases are often resolved within nine hours, while matters involving parenting, custody, and support may require additional sessions.
After a full agreement is reached:
While agreements are often reached much sooner, most mediated divorces are completed in just over six months—far quicker than the one to two years often required for litigation.
Mediation gives you greater control over your future while reducing the financial and emotional costs of divorce. Benefits include:
Mediation is most successful when both parties are committed to participating honestly and making full financial disclosures. If one spouse intends to hide assets or act in bad faith, mediation may not be the appropriate process, and litigation may be necessary to protect both parties' rights.
Let's Find the Best Path Forward
Call me at (562) 426-6522 to schedule your free consultation.